Through postponing dreams I learned how to be with myself. I learned to listen more than talk. I learned the power of patience. I learned that life is not a train to be ridden in whatever direction you hop on. You can get off the train at any moment because there is no script – Life is improv – and with that I will spend the next 20, 30, 40 years beginning each day not with what I wish could be but with the joy of choosing: yes, and.